Anger is an emotion distinguished by strong negative feelings toward someone or something. Everyone feels anger or frustration at times. Anger can be constructive and gives people a way to express their emotions. But if you have trouble controlling your anger, it can quickly become destructive and impact your quality of life and mental and physical health. If you are having problems with anger (for example, trouble with the law, physical violence or the threat of physical violence, breaking things, or driving dangerously) you may want to take steps to work on it. Seeing a mental health professional who specialized in anger management can be very beneficial. Anger management won’t try to keep you from feeling angry; anger is a normal, healthy emotion. But when you can learn to recognize the signs that you're becoming angry, you can implement learned strategies to calm down and deal with the situation.
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Understanding underlying aspects of our anger and understanding our role in our relationship is a key to treating anger and understanding it as an attempt to communicate something or not getting our basic needs met in our relationships.
Anger is not the enemy. It is how we respond to our own anger that can get us into trouble. Anger is a complex response to either external or internal triggers. Physiologically, it activates a part of our brain called the amygdala. We can actually learn to use the higher reasoning centers of our brains to actively soothe our agitated amydalas. This is the essence of anger management.
Are you ready to give anger its proper place in your life? It can be your fuel without causing damage to yourself or others. Counseling can help you discover how to make this so.
The ways that we handle anger may be strongly influenced by the models we had. For over four years I led anger management groups in a community mental health agency and helped clients explore the roots of their anger and find effective ways to understand how anger arises in their day-to-day life and how they can manage it.
Anger is a healthy and necessary emotion and is important for us to be able to thrive. Often times, the ways in which we handle our anger can cause issues in our lives. My goal is to help you learn how to manage your anger in a healthy and beneficial way.
Anger is a normal and useful emotion. I teach my clients how to self-soothe and also to soothe each other when this emotion grows beyond healthy interaction. I teach you how to identify the signs of unproductive anger and how to get back on track and express your anger in a healthy way for both parties to feel heard and understood.
Anger as an emotion is often misrepresented as a problem, when it really is an means of asserting and protecting oneself. I assist people in recognizing their triggers and developing effective ways to communicate their needs and control harmful actions. I have worked extensively with conduct disorder students and adults in treatment and school settings.
Tools to reduce overload, anger and increase calm in ones life. EFT (Emotional Freedom Technique) or tapping to bring calm and eliminate negative self talk.
I offer a safe and non shaming way to look at anger from a distance, so that you have the option of reclaiming that energy in a way that serves you.
We all become frustrated and stressed at times. When that stress leads to anger we are at the greatest risk to hurt ourselves and others. Identifying with Anger, may lead you take action which you might take when calm. Calming the mind, body complex with effective tools loosens its grip and frees our lives.
I teach various skills to help you identify when your internal barometer is rising and how to calm it down so you are no longer hijacked by your anger or other intense emotions. Using neurobiology and the power of mindfulness as a compass, you will transform this side of yourself and reclaim your calm self in conflict.
Anger is often the only 'acceptable' emotion for men to display, while for women it is often 'unacceptable' to show anger. I will help you uncover what is behind the anger and resolve the source while developing the skills to more appropriately express yourself.
I maintain clear boundaries and able to engage in mutually respectful dialogue to deconstruct and uncover an understanding of what the anger is about.
In my early years as an intern, I had the unusual experience of running a 52 week anger management program for men convicted of domestic violence. I was trained in anger management techniques as well as the role that trauma plays in our ability to manage fight or flight reactions. Some need help containing anger, some need help accessing it. I encourage a healthy relationship to anger.
Expression of anger is often the reaction to a deeper primary emotional experience. I will work with you on a cognitive level to help identify what triggers your anger, and on a mind-body level to raise awareness of how you experience anger in the body. In doing so, we can identify ways to better cope with emotions and experiences that contribute to your anger.
Anger is often a very healthy emotion to feel however problems arise when its expression is misguided. When used properly anger can generate tremendous change and clarity. My approach to working with anger comes from a mind/body orientation--acknowledging that the body influences thoughts and emotions. I use the moving meditation of qigong in talk-therapy sessions to specifically address anger.
Anger is a normal human emotion. Sometimes the way that we handle this emotion causes various problems in our lives. I focus on helping my clients gain tools and skills to cope more effectively with anger.