Sexual addiction, sometimes called compulsive sexual behavior, can take many forms. In general, a person may have a sexual addiction when they cannot control their sexual feelings, thoughts or behaviors. Like other types of addiction (drug, gambling, internet etc.), the severity and type of problem can vary but is usually characterized by the individual's continued involvement in sexual activities despite negative consequences. Some symptoms of sexual addiction may include an abnormally high sex drive, intense and distracting sexual fantasies, an obsession with seeking out numerous sexual partners, compulsive masturbation, voyeurism, exhibitionism, the excessive use of pornography, or illegal activities (like rape or molestation). If you are having obsessive sexual thoughts or engaging in risky sexual behavior that is interfering in your daily life, a mental health professional can help you. Seeing a qualified therapist is the first step towards getting a handle on your sexual addiction and making positive changes.
Local Experts in Sexual Addiction
You want to choose your partner and respect the contract the two of you have created yet you continue to seek out extra relationships and contacts that invite betrayal, deceit, excitement, risk, pleasure, and pain into your life. I can support you in better understanding the many parts of you that are activated in these multiple relationships and complicated behaviors.
I have a strong background in human sexuality in my training and as a focus in treating people. Arousal and desire can get wired in so many different ways and often can be a source of intense shame. Shame keeps desires and needs in the dark and frustrates the needs associated with being fully alive, passionate and sharing closeness, touch sensuality and intimacy.
Sexual addiction is more about the lack of vulnerability, and emotional maturity that is required to have a healthy life. When we run from our feelings, and not able to express ourselves, for what ever reason, we may substitute our needs with less than savory actions. While our desire for intimacy may be greater these days, temporaries forays external to ourself are never completely fulfilling.
My specialty in love and sex addiction grew from my own experiences, charted in my memoir Loose Girl, and recovery
Addiction to sex and pornography is a controversial issue, but one that I believe is very real, and one that is potentially highly destructive. Addressing a sexual addiction involves the most holistic counseling approach I have seen, as a sexual addiction is often related to other addictions, trauma, other mental health and relational challenges. I am committed to your holistic health.
I have worked with mostly males and some females in the area of sexual addictions including pornography. Before I began in this field I saw porn as a moral issue, but now I see how it tears people down, makes them emotionally unavailable, and ruins relationships.
I\'m a CSAT - certified sex addiction therapist. 90% of my clients are overcoming this addictive process and THE NUMEROUS OTHER ADDICTIONS that are present with it. Alcohol, tobacco, marijuana, food, codependency, etc.
Although the concept of sexual “addiction” is widely-recognized by the general public, it remains a controversial topic in the sex therapy field. If your sexual thoughts or behaviors are upsetting to you or your partner, I provide a level headed and well-researched perspective. I have helped many people with this and would love to hear from you.
Have you been caught doing something you are ashamed of? Are you feeling betrayed by yourself or confused? It's normal to struggle with parts of life. When you feel out of control, hooked on a sexual addiction or ritual, you need a trained therapist to help you slow down and take an inventory of your life. I have completed the Advanced Training in Problematic Sexual Behavior program or ATPSB.
Trained by Patrick Carnes, PhD, I am a certified sex addiction therapist and have been treating individuals and their partners or other family members for over a decade. I am a member of the Society for the Advancement of Sexual Health (SASH), and continually update my skills through training, consultation and research.
I have worked with sex addiction in individuals and couples for 25 years. My approach is similar to that developed by Patrick Carnes PhD, but with some significant modifications. I try to include the partner/spouse in any treatment whenever possible.