Stephanie Winn

Stephanie Winn

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist


Couples get un-stuck & fall back in love. Individuals find joy, meaning, & vitality. Detransitioners & parents of ROGD youth welcome!

Client Status

not accepting clients



1007 E Burnside

Portland, 97214

At a Glance


Rate: $165-$200

Provides free initial consultation

Provides telehealth services

Practicing Since: 2013

Languages: English

Faith: Agnosticism, Atheism, Buddhism, Hinduism, Sikhism, Taoism, Wicca/Paganism, Interfaith, Multifaith


  • Individual
  • Family
  • Group
  • Relationship
  • Teen

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Pocket
  • Out of Network
  • Aetna
  • PacificSource
  • Providence Health Plan
  • United Behavioral Health
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My Ideal Client

I help: • detransitioners & parents of ROGD • partners get un-stuck, hear each other, and rekindle love • creative scatterbrains find emotional stability, focus, motivation, and self-respect • “helpers” manage stress, vicarious trauma, compassion fatigue, political burnout, ecological turmoil, and narcissistic emotional abuse • individuals and families adjust to change • highly sensitive people find balance • women care for their hormonal cycles • men talk about feelings • teens be more awesome

My Approach to Helping

Therapy with me isn’t awkward or impersonal; I value the process of building relationships, and am very interactive. My style is warm, direct, intuitive, quirky, and irreverent. I trust my gut, offer reflections, connect dots, identify patterns, reframe problems, explore significance, and offer practical solutions. With couples, by observing your present-moment interactions I assess how you've polarized based on attachment styles, family patterns, trauma, archetypes, core emotions, basic fears, drives, and universal human needs. I then intervene in subtle but profound ways to halt dysfunction and reframe your dilemmas in ways that are loving and kind. I model empathy, mind-body awareness and compassionate communication skills as you learn to heal and reconnect. All work is online, including a free initial consultation; intake documents; and telehealth visits. Individuals, couples and families alike can all expect "homework" between sessions to help you reach your goals quickly.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

My interests include wellness, creative expression, the great outdoors, healing arts, and ecology. The best way to get to know me is to visit my website, Find my blog at

Issues I Treat


  • Coronavirus/COVID-19 External link

    This pandemic is affecting us all in a number of ways. Whether you’re feeling trapped because you’re alone, or because you’re stuck with people who drive you nuts; whether you’re panicking because you’re out of work, or because you face the unique challenges of being an essential worker; I’m confident that together we can find ways to help you better weather this storm.

  • Compassion Fatigue External link

    I love working with nurses, social workers and the like because they are among the world’s most genuinely good-hearted people, and life asks a lot of them. The path of the wounded healer is often tied to ancestral trauma, and childhood messages about your worth and purpose. Let’s help you re-examine those beliefs and learn to take better care of yourself.

  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships External link

    Relationships are living, breathing, dynamic processes. Not all adhere to a mono-normative structure, nor do they need to in order to be meaningful. My role as a therapist is to understand what makes your close relationships significant to you, and help you live according to your personal desires and values. I provide counseling for individuals, couples and moresomes.

  • Self-Esteem External link

    Life is hard enough as it is. Why make it harder by beating yourself up? Self-worth is one of the most consistently reported gains I hear from my clients. It’s hard to hate yourself when you spend an hour a week talking to someone who sees what’s uniquely miraculous about you - and that’s my gift.

  • Relationship / Marriage Issues External link

    Relationships have a bigger impact on longevity than diet and exercise combined. If your relationship is in trouble, you might not be able to eat, sleep, or concentrate. I can help you learn to stop conflict before it starts; understand yourself and your loved one better; or figure out when it’s time to call it quits. Many couples report significant improvement in just four sessions.

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