Heather Tollander

Heather Tollander (They/She/He)

Clinical Psychologist

PsyD

I have 15+ years of experience specializing in neurodiverse folks including ADHD and autism, CPTSD/PTSD, and dissociative disorders.

Client Status

accepting clients

Contact

503-381-2012

8333 SE Stark St.

Portland, 97216

At a Glance

Me

Rate: $275-$250

Provides free initial consultation

Practicing Since: 2015

Languages: English

Services

  • Individual

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Pocket
  • Out of Network
  • MODA
  • Regence Blue Cross/Blue Shield

My Ideal Client

I've spent the last 12+ years providing therapy to neurodiverse folks. I also have extensive experience working with queer and transgender clients. While I can work with a variety of presenting concerns I specialize in complex PTSD, and dissociative disorders such as OSDD or DID. I am also an excellent diagnostician and can asses and diagnose many conditions including ADHD. I can't diagnose autism at this time. I am only talking new clients who do not need crisis care. I'm dual Licensed in WA.

My Approach to Helping

I take a personalized approach with each client to assess and meet their individual needs that emphasizes the importance of the therapeutic relationship as part of the healing process. Part of that includes helping clients find a balance between wholeheartedly accepting and loving themselves and changing what they can. I feel it is best to meet clients where they are in the healing process while remaining mindful of cultural or other differences. This could mean education about a recent diagnosis, practicing skills, or deep, long term healing from trauma. I prioritize trust and safety in my relationship with clients and feel having a sense of humor and curiosity are essential to the often serious nature of therapy. While I'm pretty adaptable, my default communication style is friendly, blunt, and direct.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I wholeheartedly believe that anyone is capable of healing with the right support. As someone with lived experience with ADHD and with a family member on the autism spectrum I recognize that neurodiverse people aren't broken or disordered. We're people living in a world that isn't made for us. Part of what I love to do is help people find the supports they need to navigate their world, and work befriending their neurodiversity. I also feel strongly that people with trauma deserve to heal in whatever way is right for them. If this is you, I'm happy to guide you on your journey. I do my best to practice cultural humility. I identify as a queer, first generation Norwegian-American who is a single parent. I did my undergraduate degree at UC Berkeley, and my PsyD at Pacific University. When I'm not at work you can find me spending time with my daughter, living frilufts liv (time outdoors), sewing, knitting, spinning, or crocheting. I'm always down to discover a new restaurant or trail!

Techniques I Use

Specialties

  • Mindfulness-based External link

    I have 15+ years integrating mindfulness into therapy when clients request it. In addition to receiving regular continuing education on the topic, I am a practicing Buddhist of 10+ years of practice that I can offer clients in a secular manner if that's their preference. In the past I ran an ADHD friendly mindfulness group. I love helping people who think they can't do mindfulness discover that they can!

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) External link

    While I don't provide full fidelity DBT, it was the first treatment modality I learned in graduate school. I got my training in DBT cofaciliting multifamily DBT groups from a psychologist who had training from Marsha Linehan. While I provide an integrative approach to therapy using many modalities, DBT is the thread that holds much of my work together.

  • Psychodynamic  External link

    I received psychodynamic supervision during my residency, and have continued learning and growing in this specialty. Psychodynamic therapy is the other consistent thread that holds much of my work together.

  • Hypnotherapy External link

    I received my first intro ASCH approved training in Clinical Hypnosis in July 2025 and am currently working toward my certification in clinical hypnosis. I engage in regular consultation in this area. At client request, I use hypnosis to help clients reduce stress, improve relaxation and am learning to help them use it to process trauma. I love to teach clients self hypnosis so they can reap the benefits of healthy trance on their own terms!

Issues I Treat

Specialties

  • ADHD External link

    I have over 15 years of experience working with people with ADHD, over 10 of those working as a psychologist at an ADHD clinic. This included doing assessments with the purpose of diagnosis and providing therapy. I am particularly skilled at doing ADHD assessments for folks with a high degree of complexity. I have extensive training on ADHD. I also have ADHD myself. I was diagnosed at age 3 when I got kicked out of preschool!

  • Autism External link

    I have 10+ years of providing therapy to folks on the spectrum. While I can't make a medical diagnosis of autism at this time, I did autism testing in the past. I also have a family member on spectrum. I have several hours of specialized training. However the most helpful training is the years of experience listening to, believing, and working with my autistic clients.

  • Dissociative Disorder (DD) External link

    I have 8+ years of experience working with folks with DID and OSDD. I have over 120 hours of specialized training in this area from the International Society for Trauma and Dissociation, including an advanced certification in trauma and dissociation. I also engage in regular professional consultation in this area. With that said I've learned the most from my listening to and believing my clients.

  • PTSD External link

    I have 10+ years of working with people with both simple and complex trauma. If you're not sure what that means I can help! I have over 120 hours of specialized training in this area from the International Society for Trauma and Dissociation, including an advanced certification in trauma and dissociation. I also engage in regular professional consultation in this area. With that said I've learned the most from my listening to and believing my clients.

  • LGBTQ Issues External link

    I have been working with queer clients for 15+ years. I have taken many professional trainings in the topic including writing letters for gender affirming surgery and the intersection of queerness with autism, trauma, dissociation, etc. While the trainings are helpful, I've learned the most from listening to and believing my clients' experiences. Additionally I provide letters for gender affirming surgery. I identify as queer and have a daughter with two moms.

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