Marriage and Family Therapist Associate
A steady, human space for individuals and couples navigating what life is asking of them now.
Client Status
5034798220
917 SW Oak St
Suite 303
Portland, 97205
Rate: $50-$70
Provides free initial consultation
Practicing Since: 2026
Languages: English
My clients are navigating the complex and often messy realities of life. If you are tired of performing, reluctant to ask for help, or feel like you're navigating a dense fog alone, you belong here. We won't strip away your context; we'll look directly at it together to help you move forward with greater clarity, agency, and authenticity.
Specialties
While fundamentally guided by the existential pillars—freedom, meaning, isolation, and mortality—I apply these concepts practically. My expertise lies in helping clients move beyond the "why" of their suffering toward an intentional "how" of living. I view our work as a partnership focused on reclaiming agency in the face of life’s magnitude.
I utilized CBT extensively throughout my clinical practicum to provide clients with immediate, tangible tools for navigating distress. I approach CBT not as a way to "fix" thoughts, but as a method for deconstructing the reactive loops that keep us stuck. It serves as the practical scaffolding that allows for deeper existential exploration and behavioral change.
My clinical focus is rooted in the "relational" aspect of my Marriage and Family Therapy training. I specialize in the space between people, treating the therapeutic relationship as a live laboratory. This approach is particularly effective for those feeling untethered in their connections or struggling with the transition from reaction to intention.
I incorporate Narrative interventions to help clients "externalize" the problems that feel like part of their identity. By examining the stories you’ve inherited—from family, culture, or military service—we work to re-author a narrative that aligns with your current values. This is key for clients navigating "the descent" of major life transitions.
Specialties
The transition from the structured world of service to the unknown of civilian life is often a profound descent. I work with veterans and service members navigating the loss of mission, identity shifts, and the feeling of being "untethered" in a world that doesn't speak the same language. We don’t just manage the fallout; we face the deeper existential questions of purpose and agency, working together to author a new narrative that honors your history while reclaiming your future.
This isn’t about self-improvement; it’s about authorship. I work with individuals who feel their current life map no longer matches the terrain. We treat this untethered feeling as a signal to move toward deeper agency. By facing questions of freedom, responsibility, and purpose, we work to transform the descent into an opportunity of significant self-discovery.
Grief is not a problem to be solved, but a landscape to be navigated. I offer a steady, unflinching presence for those in the thick of the unknown following a loss. My approach honors the weight of what has been lost while creating the space necessary to eventually find meaning and a way to carry absence with intention. There is no prescribed timeline for this.
I view anxiety not as a defect, but as a signal—often an existential one. Rather than simply trying to quiet the symptoms, we look at what anxiety is saying about your relationship to freedom, choice, and the unknown. We work to build the gear necessary to face life's uncertainties without being paralyzed by them. This isn't toxic-positivity rebranded; this is the capacity to navigate the magnitude of what it means to be human with intention.
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