Patrick Bluett

Licensed Professional Counselor Intern

Trouble in the bedroom? Struggling to connect sexually with yourself or your partner(s)? I can help you deepen intimacy, reclaim your pleasure and have GREAT sex again.


  • Couples Therapy
  • Individual Therapy
  • Couples Therapy
  • Individual Therapy

My Approach

Over the course of therapy, we will map out the experiences and beliefs that shape your expectations about sex and challenge the notions that no longer serve you and your relationship(s). We will seek out and weed out any shame that has been rooted in you by parents/caretakers, media/cultural messaging, past relationships and other experiences. We will uncover and challenge harmful beliefs and unrealistic expectations you may have of yourself or your partner(s) so you may once again share the joy of intimate connection. I will accompany you as you form a new vision of your sexual self that aligns with your personal values. Using a combination of cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness practices and attachment theory, I will arm you with a plethora of tools, strategies and resources to empower you to realize your sexual vision and enjoy the process along the way.

My Background

Sex is such an integral part of our lives and the way we relate to and connect with our intimate partners. I am in constant awe of the amount of misinformation, shame and trauma we are exposed to throughout our lives and the myriad ways these factors can detract from our sexual experience. There is so much joy and connectivity to be shared through sex and I have made it my mission to help others to reclaim pleasure regardless of gender, orientation, race or religion. My office is a safe space for all - no exceptions. My practice is sex positive, LGBTQ friendly, and poly / non-monog competent. I offer a free 20 minute phone consultation to ensure we are a good fit. If not, I will happily point you towards other therapists and resources to help you on your journey.

Insurance Plans Accepted

  • Out of Network


  • (971) 350-8050‬
  • Website
  • 8083 SE 13th Ave, Suite 3
    Portland, OR 97202

At a Glance

  • Experience: Licensed Professional Counselor Intern
  • Neighborhood: Sellwood
  • Rate: $100-125/session
  • Free Initial Consultation

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