Ben Shechet

Ben Shechet

Licensed Professional Counselor

Oregon License #C9941

Internal Family Systems (IFS) and experiential and somatic therapy for deep and sustained healing and change.

Client Status

accepting clients

Contact

919-627-7324

At a Glance

Me

Rate: $185

Provides free initial consultation

Practicing Since: 2022

Services

  • Individual

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Network

My Ideal Client

I work with clients with a broad spectrum of challenges--anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, life transitions and identity development, existential concerns, psychedelic integration, and more. Beyond relief of symptoms (which is important!), the clients who find me are often looking for a greater sense of depth, meaning, and connection in their lives, whether that's to themselves, to others, or to the big mystery we're all a part of.

My Approach to Helping

My approach to therapy is primarily experiential. This means that more than just talking about your challenges, we learn to turn toward them with a kind of open-hearted awareness that naturally begins to bring insight, healing, and growth. I utilize Internal Family Systems as my primary therapeutic modality; this approach sees people as having many parts, all of which are doing their best to help us survive and thrive. In working with these parts, we can reduce inner and outer conflict and bring integration and harmony to our experience of life. I am Level 3 trained and certified through the IFS Institute, and have additional certification in Somatic IFS as well. I utilize techniques and perpectives from Gestalt and psychodynamic therapies, and bring over 15 years of meditation and contemplative practice to my work.. If I had to boil my approach down to one sentence, I'd say 'when we learn to listen well to what hurts, the path to healing becomes clear and simple.'

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe that we are all at our core whole and complete--we all have the capacity for love, connection, and wisdom within us. We don't need to be fixed or corrected, we just need to remember how to make contact with that original goodness. I see this process as the great adventure of being human, and as a path that we're all walking in our own way, in our own time. At the same time, that remembering can be quite a challenge, and we can use some help with it! My own path has been long and winding, and has brought me to many teachers, healers, and therapists who have shown me great kindness and compassion. My hope is that I can pass some of that on to others through the work I do. I am also a believer in the importance of joy and playfulness in this process; if we can't have at least a little bit of fun with it, why would anyone bother?

Techniques I Use

Specialties

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) External link

    I am extensively trained in IFS, and have completed all three levels of training through the IFS Institute, as well as certification, which requires ongoing supervision, continuing education, and demonstrations of competency. I am also certified in Somatic IFS, which brings an additional layer of body-based awareness and practice to the IFS model. I continue to develop my skills and grounding through regular supervision and consultation.

  • Contemplative External link

    I utilize perspectives and practices from a variety of traditional and contemporary approaches to contemplative practice; these perspectives are grounded in my own ongoing experience and growth as a practitioner and student.

  • Somatic Therapy (Body Centered) External link

    My experience is that the body is the quickest and most direct portal to what is central to our challenges. When we use the body as our entry point, we drop beneath our habitual mental narratives and start to interact directly with our experience, supporting a deeper movement toward wholeness. I bring an exploratory and open attitude toward breath, posture, movement, and body awareness that lets us access greater depth and richness of experience in service of healing.

  • Transpersonal External link

    My view is that there are inner resources, experiences, and capacities available to us that lie beyond what we typically think of as our personal psychology. We may access these resources in peak experiences, through dedicated practice or psychedelic work, or in moments of deep need or stress, but we can also cultivate an awareness of these deeper places in ourselves and they can become a deep source of strength and support in the healing process.

Issues I Treat

Specialties

  • Anxiety External link

    Most clients who come to me are dealing with some form of anxiety; I find IFS to be a particularly helpful therapeutic approach for developing insight into the underlying causes of anxiety and working to heal it at the root.

  • Depression External link

    'Depression' can be a very simple label for a very complex experience. Working somatically and through a parts work lens, we can untangle the threads that keep you feeling stuck, hopeless, or unable to move forward in your life.

  • Men's Issues External link

    I often work with men wanting to find their way to a more life-giving and generative masculinity, whether that means greater emotional access and insight, working through cultural patterns and scripts that no longer serve them, or developing their own sense of what it means to be a man in the world today.

  • Spirituality External link

    I have over 15 years of practice in a number of traditional and contemporary spiritual paths, and welcome individuals looking for an integration of spirituality into the therapy room. My perspective is broad and inclusive, and I work to meet clients through the language, traditions (or lack thereof), and orientations that feel most meaningful to them.

  • Historical Trauma External link

    I have a particular interest in helping people navigate intergenerational or historical patterns of trauma that seem to come through a particular family or cultural lineage. This interest stems from my own work around inherited Jewish trauma, and I feel that IFS offers some particularly helpful tools for identifying and working with these patterns.

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