Hailey Gonnerman (she/her)

My Approach to Helping

My approach to therapy is rooted in attachment theory, which recognizes our innate human need for connection and how our early experiences shape our relational patterns throughout life. I believe that many of our struggles, whether in our relationships or within ourselves, often stem from unmet needs for safety, understanding, and belonging. In our work together, we'll explore these core needs and the patterns that might be keeping you stuck. I specialize in couples counseling, and I am trained in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This approach is based on the idea that our emotions are the key to our needs and that a secure emotional bond is essential for a healthy relationship. Using EFT, I help couples identify and understand their emotional patterns, which allows them to move from conflict and disconnection to a place of greater intimacy and connection.

Why I Became a Therapist

Over my career, I've had the privilege of leading numerous filial play therapy workshops. These sessions are designed to empower parents by teaching them how to use therapeutic play to strengthen their bond with their children and improve communication. This work has been incredibly rewarding, as I've seen firsthand how a little guidance can create lasting positive change within a family. As a therapist, I have the privilege of witnessing incredible change. I see hearts opening, families reconnecting, and individuals discovering their inner strength. It's a journey of vulnerability and growth, and the potential for change exists within everyone. My purpose is to walk alongside you, providing a space where you can feel that transformation begin. If you're ready to start your journey toward healing and connection, I'm here to support you.