Shannon Hayter (she/her)

My Approach to Helping

I am a queer, cis woman with an MA in Marriage, Couple, and Family Therapy from Lewis & Clark College. My background also includes graduate training in special education, which taught me to meet people creatively and outside the margins of “normal.” I bring training in ACT, DBT, EFT, Narrative Therapy, Collaborative Problem Solving, and Transgender Affirming Care. I work with issues such as identity development, gender transitions, addiction and recovery, trauma, grief, parenting, and non-traditional families. My approach is relational, direct, and socially aware: I listen closely, ask honest questions, and help you explore what’s working, what’s hurting, and what feels possible. Together, we’ll look for small but powerful shifts—moments of clarity, connection, and healing—that support lasting change.

My Personal Beliefs and Interests

I believe collective healing is possible when people feel fully seen and supported. My own life as a queer, married, chosen-family parent has shown me the beauty and complexity of belonging, and this deeply shapes how I sit with others. I approach therapy through a relational and social justice lens, honoring the ways culture, privilege, and oppression impact our lives. I especially welcome clients whose identities or experiences have left them feeling marginalized—you deserve care that is affirming and inclusive. Outside of therapy, I love hiking with my dogs, traveling with my wife, baking, and spending time with friends and family. I’m always chasing the joy of finishing the book before book club. My values include creativity, honesty, and living into relationships with heart and devotion.