James Whalen

James Whalen (He/Him)

Professional Counselor Associate

R7227

Supervisor: Kari Hays, LPC (C6460)

I provide a safe space for you to explore the impacts of men's issues, ADHD, depression, and anxiety, and help you learn to manage them.

Client Status

accepting clients

Contact

541-818-0009

At a Glance

Me

Rate: $150

Provides free initial consultation

Practicing Since: 2021

Languages: English

Services

  • Individual

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Pocket
  • Medicaid
  • OHP CareOregon/HealthShare
  • OHP Open Card
  • OHP Single Case Agreement
  • OHP Trillium
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My Ideal Client

I specialize in working with clients who are struggling to identify a stable self-image, whether that be due to large-scale social pressures, family dynamics, trauma, neurodivergence, or other causes. Many of my clients have been invalidated by others or themselves for so long that they've lost contact with their own needs and emotions, or struggle to advocate for them without beating themselves up. I have specific training and experience working with men and with people who are neurodivergent.

My Approach to Helping

Our time in therapy will focus on teaching you effective skills to change the way that you relate to yourself, your emotions, and your thoughts, while also exploring and validating the reasons that you developed your current patterns in the first place. I pride myself in my deep sense of empathy, and have been told often that I have a calming presence. I have over six years experience in inpatient facilities, often treating clients at their most difficult moment of crisis. I won't ever judge you for difficult thoughts or feelings, and I'll use my experience to guide you through those moments safely.

Why I am a Good Fit for You

I believe strongly in the power of counseling to change lives: I'm in this field because I've experienced it firsthand. I also know that reaching out for help can be challenging, especially when you're struggling. You're already making progress towards change by starting this search and being on here! I would love to help you continue that journey.

Techniques I Use

Specialties

  • Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) External link

    Acceptance and Commitment Therapy teaches us to learn how to sit with our distress and accept it, in order to help us relate to our thoughts and feelings in ways that don't increase the suffering that's natural to your situation. It helps us learn to live our lives according to our values, with the understanding that we have control of our behavior and not our thoughts. ACT is most helpful for clients with anxiety and depression.

  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT) External link

    Cognitive Behavioral Therapy is one of the oldest and best research-supported modalities that we have, and has been adapted to a wide range of presenting issues, though it originated with depression. It's also the gold standard for therapy treating ADHD at present. CBT focuses on identifying the links between our thoughts, our emotions, and our behavior, as well as patterns in how those three interact that are causing harm in your life.

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) External link

    I do not provide the full course of DBT. It's a therapy with a high degree of commitment required from both parties, and therefore would not be appropriate for once-weekly telehealth services. However, there are many skills and concepts in DBT that are broadly applicable, and I bring in these elements when it feels like they would be helpful on an individual basis. These include mindfulness skills, distress tolerance skills, and dialectical concepts.

Issues I Treat

Specialties

  • Men's Issues External link

    I specialize in working with people who identify as male, and am interested in exploring the intersection between your own concepts of masculinity, society's expectations, and mental health. I enjoy helping men find ways to relate to and regulate emotion that utilize the strength and resilience that masculinity can provide, while also recognizing the ways that expectations of men and the ways we relate to emotion can harm us. I am also comfortable addressing concerns about male sexual health.

  • ADHD External link

    As someone who has been diagnosed with ADHD myself, I have the lived experience of managing associated symptoms, as well as the training to ensure that my interventions with you are evidence-based. I recognize that ADHD comes with both biological differences and cognitive impacts that can be unpacked and re-oriented to serve your particular style most effectively. I'm also very familiar with how ADHD's intersection with identity can make symptoms look different in every individual.

  • Depression External link

    I have several years of experience working with people who have experienced intense and often treatment resistant depression, and I understand how hopeless and frustrating it is being stuck in the negative thought and mood cycles that typically cause it. I take a two-sided approach of working to challenge these negative thought patterns while also helping you to recognize the things you're grateful for in your life, and your own strengths.

  • Anxiety External link

    Anxiety has many forms, and almost all of them are uncomfortable, painful experiences. I tend to leverage my calming presence to help anxious clients feel safe in the therapy environment. Once we've established that, we can move on to learning about the roots of your anxiety and how to change your relationship with those roots so that you can learn to manage your symptoms more effectively.

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