Miranda York

Miranda York

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist

T1469

I offer insight-oriented and experiential therapy for adults and couples seeking lasting change and stronger relationships.

Client Status

accepting clients

Contact

2066836637

3434 S Kelly Ave

Portland, 97239

5661 Keith Avenue

Oakland, California 94609

At a Glance

Me

Rate: $180-$200

Provides free initial consultation

Provides telehealth services

Practicing Since: 2013

Languages: English

Services

  • Individual
  • Relationship

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Pocket
  • Out of Network
  • OHP CareOregon/HealthShare

My Ideal Client

My clients are often high-functioning adults who seem successful on the outside but feel stuck in relationships, identity, or purpose. If you're curious, introspective, and ready to understand—not just manage—the patterns keeping you stuck, we'll work together to create meaningful, lasting change. My practice focuses on attachment trauma, complex PTSD, and the lasting impact of early relationships. Together, we'll build more secure relationships and a stronger sense of self.

My Approach to Helping

Drawing from psychodynamic, psychoanalytic, attachment-based, and somatic approaches, I help clients understand not only what is happening in their lives, but why these patterns developed in the first place. I am warm, engaged, and interactive. I see the therapeutic relationship itself as an opportunity to experience a different way of relating—one that fosters curiosity, safety, and growth. I listen deeply, attending not only to what you say but also to the emotions, patterns, and unconscious dynamics that may be shaping your experiences. Together, we'll explore the roots of your struggles, develop greater insight, and create new ways of relating to yourself and others that feel more authentic, secure, and freeing. I also work with couples, including those in consensually non-monogamous and polyamorous relationships. Together we'll explore attachment dynamics, recurring cycles of conflict, and the influence of the past on the present.

Why I am a Good Fit for You

Many people with developmental trauma don't think of themselves as having experienced trauma. They see themselves as overthinking conversations, feeling responsible for everyone else's emotions, becoming intensely self-critical after conflict, struggling to trust, or repeatedly finding themselves in relationships that leave them feeling unseen or unsafe. These patterns often develop as creative adaptations to early environments and can change through therapy. You may also struggle with a persistent sense that something is wrong with you — even when others see you as capable, caring, or successful. You may find yourself moving between feeling like you are uniquely gifted and feeling deeply flawed or inadequate. You might be highly attuned to others while feeling disconnected from yourself, or long for belonging while feeling fundamentally different from the people around you. Shame can become so familiar that it feels like a personality trait rather than something that was learned.

Techniques I Use

Specialties

  • EMDR External link

    EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) is a trauma therapy that can help the brain process distressing experiences that continue to affect your emotions, relationships, and sense of self. I use EMDR to help clients work through traumatic memories, painful beliefs, and patterns that may have developed from overwhelming experiences. EMDR can be especially helpful for people who feel stuck despite having insight into their experiences.

  • Psychodynamic  External link

    Psychodynamic therapy explores how your past experiences, relationships, and unconscious patterns shape the way you see yourself and interact with the world. Together, we can examine recurring themes, relationship patterns, emotional responses, and beliefs about yourself that may no longer serve you. This approach is designed for people who want to develop deeper self-understanding, heal old wounds, and create meaningful, lasting change.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) External link

    Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach that helps you understand the different “parts” of yourself that hold emotions, beliefs, and protective strategies. Rather than viewing parts of yourself as problems to eliminate, IFS helps you develop curiosity, compassion, and greater integration. This approach can be especially helpful for people struggling with shame, self-criticism, trauma, relationship patterns, or feeling stuck despite understanding themselves intellectually.

Issues I Treat

Specialties

  • Self-Esteem External link

    Many people struggle with self-esteem not because they lack accomplishments or strengths, but because they carry a deep sense of being inadequate, different, or not enough. I work with clients who are highly self-critical, struggle with shame, compare themselves to others, or feel disconnected from their own worth. Therapy can help you develop greater self-trust, self-compassion, and a more stable sense of who you are.

  • Women's Issues External link

    I have experience working with issues that disproportionately impact women, including PCOS/PMOS, endometriosis, hEDS, chronic health conditions, caregiver burnout, and the challenges of navigating leadership and managerial roles as a woman. I also work with women exploring relationship dynamics, domestic labor inequities, and the emotional impact of balancing achievement, caregiving, health, and personal identity.

  • Relationship / Marriage Issues External link

    Relationships often bring our deepest hopes and vulnerabilities to the surface. I work with individuals and couples navigating communication challenges, conflict, trust, intimacy, attachment patterns, and repeating relationship dynamics. Therapy can help you better understand yourself and your partner, express your needs more clearly, set healthier boundaries, and build relationships that feel more secure, connected, and fulfilling.

  • Polyamorous and Open Relationships External link

    Polyamorous relationships can bring up meaningful questions about trust, attachment, self-worth, communication, and boundaries. I support individuals and couples exploring consensual non-monogamy, whether you are navigating relationship challenges, opening a relationship, or exploring what relationship structures fit your values. My approach is curious, compassionate, and nonjudgmental.

  • Chronic Pain or Illness External link

    Living with chronic pain or complex health conditions can affect every area of life — your relationships, identity, energy, work, and sense of self. I work with clients navigating conditions that are often misunderstood or difficult to diagnose, including chronic pain, hypermobility, and other invisible illnesses. Therapy can help you process grief, frustration, and uncertainty while developing self-compassion, coping strategies, and a more supportive relationship with your body.

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