Kestrel Fae Tippie

Kestrel Fae Tippie (they/them)

Licensed Marriage Family Therapist

OR LMFT # T2221

I specialize in creative embodied approaches to healing burnout and trauma for helping professionals, neurodivergent folks, and queer folks.

Client Status

accepting clients

Contact

503-549-4714

Portland, 97214

At a Glance

Me

Rate: $165

Provides free initial consultation

Practicing Since: 2016

Languages: English, Español

Services

  • Individual
  • Family
  • Group
  • Teen

Insurances Accepted

  • Out of Pocket
  • Out of Network
  • Aetna
  • Kaiser
  • OHP CareOregon/HealthShare
  • OHP Open Card
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My Ideal Client

If you’re a helper, a fixer, a leader, a creative person, you likely care and feel and think deeply. You may have been tending to and holding so very much for a long time. I support people struggling with this tension in healing from stress, burnout and trauma so they can create a life of wellbeing and even thriving. I specialize in trauma treatment, big life transitions, burnout, compassion fatigue, ADHD, Autism, people pleasing, healthy boundaries, gender affirming care, and polyamory.

How I Can Help You

I have specialized in creative and body-based approaches because I have found that talking and insights alone often just aren’t enough. That's why I do creative, somatic body-based work that gets to the deeper layers that talk alone can’t reach. I can help you: Heal stuck trauma that keeps you feeling distressed, shut down, anxious, isolated, and fragmented. Use therapy as a laboratory to re-pattern, experiment with, and integrate new ways of being. Experience your body as a safe refuge and wise communicator. Connect to Nature as a supportive refuge that cares for you. Increase creative access to joy, play, and passion. Find belonging with your people and build community. Nurture healthy relationships where you feel safe, cherished, held, and seen. Live your gifts and soul essence to bring what is needed into the world. Relish contentment, fulfillment, satisfaction, ease, and calm. Be available and present to enjoy the juice and goodness of life.

My Approach to Helping

I think of my role as a therapist like a guide who can accompany and mentor you in a healing journey. Sometimes I lead and coach, sometimes we follow your unique awareness of where we need to go. I bring a compass of liberatory values to navigate by, and a partial map of the realms we’re journeying through that we can add to together. We will collaborate to build a toolbox of skills and resources that can open up new possibilities for you. I am committed to openness, curiosity, and sharing and dismantling power. I think of therapy like a laboratory where we can examine what’s not working for your life, experiment with new possibilities, and re-pattern old trauma and places that are stuck. Therapy can be a transformative space in which you feel anchored, supported, and deeply seen. I will help you try out and strengthen new ways of being and relating, and then build a bridge to integrate these these new aspects of self into your everyday life.

Techniques I Use

Specialties

  • Experiential External link

    If realizations alone would've solved your problems, you probably would've gotten there already- but that doesn't really work for trauma. That's why I work experientially, based in the body, and in alliance with nature. With drama therapy and role play we can embody, un-do, and re-wire past trauma and pain, and practice new ways of being. Through creative expression you can access stuck material and liberate it in service of self-expression and healing.

  • Somatic Therapy (Body Centered) External link

    From a somatic foundation of working mindfully and dropping into the body, you can get to the heart of what is stuck to process and transform it. Somatics helps you to learn how to relate to your body as a safe refuge, a reliable communicator of your feelings and needs, and a wisdom keeper that can guide you.

  • EMDR External link

    EMDR taps directly into the nervous system for re-wiring and reprocessing traumatic material, so you do not have to re-live overwhelming memories, go through flashbacks, get flooded, or even be able to access content verbally and talk through it in order to heal. EMDR can also help by "installing" new resourcing capacities or supports and re-wiring all kinds of patterns, beliefs, and behaviors.

  • EcoTherapy External link

    Ecotherapy can be incorporated via telehealth, or in sessions outdoors that invite in nature's input as a co-therapist to support your process. Relationship with nature is so absent in our everyday lives, so reconnecting can nourish deep wells within us that were in need and restore a sense of resilience and deep belonging. Time and time again, in outdoor sessions, I have seen nature attunes to us and respond to our process, emotions, and needs in astounding ways to offer support and healing.

Issues I Treat

Specialties

  • PTSD External link

    The worst things you have gone through in your life do not define you. You do not have to struggle with them forever. I work with clients somatically and with EMDR to transform the deepest roots of trauma in your body and nervous system- places that cognitive based talk therapy and realizations cannot reach. I'll teach you practical body based tools you can use every day to feel calm, centered, grounded, alive, safe, and free in your whole being.

  • ADHD External link

    Life as a neurodivergent person is its own special form of challenge and trauma. It's hard when you have never gotten the particular kind of support you need, with a lifetime of dealing with ableism without realizing that was a core part of your challenges, and feeling like 'why can't I just do the thing?!'. I specialize in ADHD'ers and Autistic folks like myself who need to work with someone with lived experience who understands these layers and works from a neurodivergent-affirming lens.

  • Compassion Fatigue External link

    I specialize in therapy for therapists, caregivers and helpers- we need our own place of support where we can drop our masks, our holding presence and emotional labor for others. You deserve a refuge where you can get really excellent skilled support, where you don't have to lead or function for anyone else, where someone else will hold your experience with wisdom and compassion. Where someone will help you see your patterns so you can make different choices that return you to life and vitality.

  • Codependency External link

    I can help you learn how to stay anchored and connected to yourself and your own authentic needs and desires. From that place, we can figure out the healthy boundaries for your life and relationships that, as Prentice Hemphill says, "are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously". We will help you carve out a space to know yourself, so you can interact with others from freedom and peace, and control the only thing there is to control- your choices and your agency and your life.

  • Cultural and Systemic Oppression External link

    The dominant culture we are surrounded by and must survive within is destructive and exploitative and deeply unjust. It is corrosive to the soul and to the fabric of our belonging to each other and to Life. It is the cause of much of our suffering. You are not broken if you are struggling within it. I bring a liberatory, anti-oppressive, decolonial lens to therapy as a space where we unpack the influence of these forces and find life giving ways of navigating and dismantling them.

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